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To Fence or Not to Fence A: I'm Not a Fan of Invisible Scary Things
Recently, I had a client ask me what I thought about invisible fences. They were not surprised to hear that I am not a fan. One concern...

Shel Graves
Nov 15, 20244 min read


For All Beings: Culture of Compassion, Systems of Compassion
At Shel Graves Animal Consulting, we seek to create a Culture of Compassion and encourage awareness of our Divine connection. We want all...

Shel Graves
Nov 13, 20241 min read


Not all the pie: What to do with a fearful dog (or cat) at Thanksgiving
The holidays are coming. There are going to be a lot of new foods, new people, new decorations, and new things around your house. If you...

Shel Graves
Nov 1, 20244 min read


Bark! by Zazie Todd The Book You Want for Your Fearful Dog
Bark! The Science of Helping Your Anxious, Fearful, or Reactive Dog by Zazie Todd is the book (and the knowledge) I wish I had had...

Shel Graves
Oct 25, 20242 min read


The Roller Coaster Effect: Answering the Question About When a Dog Looks Excited But Also Seems Unsure
Oh my goodness. Ears flying. Tongue lolling. Wiggling. Jumping. Spinning. Is there anything better than a dog who is happy and excited?...

Shel Graves
Oct 22, 20243 min read


Doing Our Best for Animals
Hello, I’m celebrating six months as Shel Graves Animal Consulting, Doing Our Best for Animals. Six months in business, woo hoo! The time...

Shel Graves
Oct 11, 20243 min read


Book Review: Breed Differences in Dog Behavior: Why Tails Wag Differently
I have listened to a number of webinars and podcasts on the topic of whether dog breed affects behavior. A favorite is the Enrichment for...

Shel Graves
Sep 20, 20242 min read


Dog Book Review: Play With Your Dog by Pat Miller CPDT, CDBC
Recently, I wrote a review of Dr. Mikel Maria Delgado’s new book Play With Your Cat! published in 2024. Short review: I recommend it! Is...

Shel Graves
Aug 23, 20242 min read


Dog Crates: Woo hoo! or B00 Hoo? Do You Have to Use Them? Crate-Training for Fearful Dogs and House-Training
I have had and worked with a number of dogs who, prior to coming to live with me, spent way too much time confined in a crate. So, I...

Shel Graves
Aug 16, 20242 min read


That Dog behind the Fence and Your Daily Dog Walk: Fenceline Running: “Woo hoo!” or “Boo hoo!” ?
Instead of fenceline running on your walk, try this instead: Take another route! Cross the street. Avoid this interaction. Go quickly by....

Shel Graves
Aug 9, 20245 min read


Yes! Quick Answers About Dog and Cat Training and Shel Graves Animal Consulting, Book a Free Discovery Call
Recently, someone asked me if it is worthwhile and possible to train their adult five-year-old rescue dog. The answer is "YES!". Unlike...

Shel Graves
Jul 20, 20241 min read


Animal Chaplains in the News: Tips for Grieving Losses
I've long enjoyed Arts and Culture Reporter Andrea Brown's What's Up With That? feature in Everett's The Daily Herald. Still, it's no...

Shel Graves
Jul 20, 20244 min read


Learning for Dogs, Learning for Cats: There's Always More to Learn about Animal Behavior and the Animals We Love
Remember being in school when there were all those tests with right and wrong answers in a variety of subjects? One of the things I love...

Shel Graves
Jul 19, 20244 min read


Rehoming a Dog. Rehoming a Cat or Other Animal Companion: Help for Difficult Decisions and Emergencies
When we take an animal into our home, into our family, it is meant to be for a lifetime. We want it to be for their lifetime. We work for...

Shel Graves
Jul 12, 20248 min read


CARE's Racial Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion training
Founded in 2020, Companions and Animals for Reform and Equity (CARE) is America’s first national Black, Indigenous, and People of Color...

Shel Graves
Jun 22, 20241 min read


Hiking With Dogs: Dogs on Trails and the Polite Driver Rule
This blog post offers one simple tip to make hikes with dogs more enjoyable: Take the dog to the side of the trail when people pass. But...

Shel Graves
Jun 21, 20244 min read


The Science of Cats! Fun Facts About Cat Behavior
Would it surprise you to know that people don't actually know that much about cats? Scientifically speaking, that is. Historically,...

Shel Graves
Jun 14, 20245 min read


What To Do When Your Dog or Cat Can't! Be Underfoot
Reward the behaviors you’d like to see more of in the places where you’d like your dog or cat to be. Provide fun activities to occupy...

Shel Graves
Jun 7, 20246 min read


How to Help Puppy Mill Rescues: Seven Tips to Help Fearful Dogs Blossom
They will need time. Ask for help from your veterinarian. Ask for help from a trainer who uses positive reinforcement and fear free...

Shel Graves
Jun 3, 20244 min read


Fun Activities With Your Cat: DIY Edition
Yes, there are lots of ways to keep your cat entertained that are inexpensive. If it fits, I sits! Cardboard boxes and paper grocery bags...

Shel Graves
Jun 1, 20243 min read

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